I don't believe extraordinary lives are found.
I believe they're designed.
When I left school, I decided not to go to university. While most of my friends headed off to study, I worked shifts stacking shelves in a supermarket, saved every penny I could and bought a one-way ticket to Southeast Asia. One morning, I found myself sitting on a rooftop in Bangkok watching the sun rise over the city.
I remember thinking:
This is it. Life doesn't get better than this.
It wasn't the skyline or weather that changed me. It was the feeling. For the first time, I felt completely alive. I realised that life could be extraordinary, and that there was a world far bigger than the one I'd grown up in.
A couple months later, I was on the flight home with tears running down my face — not because the holiday was over, but because I didn't want to return to a life I hadn't consciously chosen.
Back home, reality returned: work, bills, routine. I focused on building a successful career and it gave me the opportunity to travel the world throughout my twenties. I'm incredibly grateful for that chapter because it taught me a lot about business, discipline and responsibility.
But over time I realised something important: the life I wanted wasn't about a job title, a salary or climbing someone else's ladder. It was about ownership — of my time, my decisions, the life I was creating.
That realisation changed how I approached everything. Instead of chasing outcomes, I started focusing on inputs I could control. I stopped asking, "How do I become successful?" and started asking "Who do I need to become?"
One idea in particular reshaped how I think. I came across an old Chinese proverb:
Without the accumulation of small steps, one cannot travel a thousand miles.
The Principle
Since then, I've lived by a simple principle: do 100 reps before making a judgement.
The 100 Reps
- 01.
Post 100 pieces of content before worrying about algorithms.
- 02.
Go to the gym 100 times before chasing the perfect training plan.
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Reach out to 100 ideal potential customers before rebuilding your product.
Almost everything worthwhile is hidden behind a long period where nothing seems to be happening. That idea transformed my life. It changed how I trained, how I built my business, how I approached creativity, how I dealt with failure.
Today, I'm still very much in the middle of the journey. I work in corporate sales while building a life around things I genuinely care about. I document the process publicly because I hope it gives other people permission to believe that they can design a different life too.
I'm not sharing because I have everything figured out; I'm sharing because I don't. This website, my content and the companies I'm building are all part of the same experiment — an attempt to answer one question.
What if an extraordinary life begins the moment we dare to dream?
A few years after that first backpacking trip, I returned to the same rooftop in Bangkok. As I watched another sunrise, I could see nineteen year old me sitting there again — full of hope, ambition and possibility.
That morning I made him a promise: I would spend the rest of my life building the life he dreamed of.
My mission isn't simply to build a successful business. It's to become someone who creates more value than they take. To build things that improve people's lives. To look after the people I love. To travel the world with intention. To stay curious. To keep creating.
Most importantly, I hope my journey reminds people of something they may have forgotten: the dreams your eight year old self had are often the same dreams your eighty year old self would be proud you chased.
If you're building something meaningful, I'm glad you're here.
Let's see where the journey takes us.
Stephen x
